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On Cross-Dressing

19 December 2011

In my private practice, I get a lot of clients that are cross-dressers.  Cross-dressing lately seems to be a very popular subject.

Cross-dressing has been used for disguise, performance art and as a literary trope in modern times and throughout history.  This is a fashion and life style that tends to be associated with people of a certain sex orientation.

Nearly every society has made distinctions between male and female gender by the style, color, or type of clothing they are expected to wear.  Most of these societies have had a set of norms, views, guidelines, or even laws defining what type of clothing is appropriate for each gender. Sort of like a gender police!

Cross-dressing is against those norms. It can be seen as a type of transgender behavior. It does not, however, necessarily indicate transgender identity. Just because a person cross-dresses it means that he/she identify as being of a different gender than the one they were born with.  Sounds complicated?  This can be a very touchy subject.  I’ll explore more on the subject in my next blog on cross-dressing.

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En mi práctica privada, tengo un montón de clientes que son travestis. Travestismoúltimamente parece ser un tema muy popular.

El travestismo se ha utilizado para disfrazar el arte del performance, y como un tropo literario en los tiempos modernos ya lo largo de la historia. Este es un estilode moda y la vida que tiende a asociarse con personas de una orientación sexualdeterminada.

Casi todas las sociedades ha hecho distinciones entre el género masculino y femenino por el estilo, color o tipo de ropa que se espera que el desgaste. La mayoría de estas sociedades han tenido una serie de normas, puntos de vista,directrices o incluso las leyes que definen qué tipo de ropa es apropiada para cada género. Como una especie de policía de género!

El travestismo está en contra de esas normas. Se puede ver como un tipo decomportamiento transgénero. No obstante, indica necesariamente la identidad transexual. Sólo porque una persona cruzada vestidos que significa que él / ella se identifican como de un género diferente a la que nacieron. ¿Suena complicado?Esto puede ser un tema muy delicado. Voy a explorar más sobre el tema en mi próximo blog sobre el travestismo.

Therapist Estrella

949 421 6066

Silky Satan Pantybois

13 December 2011

Dear Valerie,

I have been wearing women’s panties.  Does that make me gay? Something about wearing silky satan panties gets me so excited and horny that I can’t help myself.  This has been a fetish for me since I was a kid when I use to steal my mommy’s panties out of her hamper.  I use to just take them and sniff them but as I got older I went from sniffing to wearing them.

Pantyboi

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Dear Pantyboi,

Oh honey there isn’t anything wrong with you.  In fact you are not alone.  There are plenty of bois like yourself that love to wear and sniff dirty panties.  It’s normal to feel horny when you smell or wear silky satan panties. In fact if you were to call me I would encourage you to continue with your hot fetish.  I just love when I have a man that want to wear mine watching their cock get hard instantly.

Therapist Valerie

949 421 6066

A Sissy’s Pity Party

9 December 2011

You have been insulted, perhaps by mistresses here. Now Your ego is all bruised, I know you are having a pity party!  A man’s pride is hurt so easily but you probably grew up hearing your mom say “Men don’t cry.  As a result of so many years of repression, you have been shown powerless and diminished in some way and now you are hurt and mad as hell!

Some of the symptoms may include: feeling disrespected, a loss in stature, an image change to reflect a decrease in what others believe about you.   You are so ashamed.  By now, you feel powerless.  Being forced into a degrading position is not a manly thing.  And let’s not even mention the fact that you are not gifted down there.

There is that girl you have been checking out.  Finally you work up the courage to ask her out.  The date is progressing nicely until you invite her to go up your place.  As soon as you get undressed, you feel the urge to grab those nice lacy panties you keep under your bed.  When she looks at your tiny dick she laughs so hard that she almost pees in your rug.

That’s the story of your life.  All you know is ridicule at the hands of others.  Don’t give up.  I’m here to help you explore the roots of your sissy behavior.  Call me; we can even play dressing up.  And if you behave I’ll give the House Special treat: ever dreamed of 18 inches up your butt?

Therapist Estrella

949 421 6066

Do You Measure Up?

16 November 2010

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Dearest Brooke

I was wondering why it turns me on to know that my wife gets turned on every time she sees a huge cock on a porn. We have fantiszed before about her and another man and she gets overwhelmly wet and cums really hard and I get really turned on knowing she wants a bigger cock then mine. I do have a small penis 5 inches to be exact and have gone out and bought my wife a big dildo which she know uses all the time and doesn’t even have sex with me anymore. Is it normal that I feel turned on when she goes out with her girlfriends for weekend trips and I just think to myself she is with a bigger man and that he is fucking her? I sit on my couch and think about it and get very arouse thinking of him shooting a big load in front of my wife.

Lost Husband

Jacob

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Dearest Lost Husband

You’ve known for a while now haven’t you? You’ve known that no matter how hard you try to satisfy her, it’s not quite enough. You’ve tried to fill in through other roles: generous provider, adoring husband, even doting servant. But what she really wants, what she really needs, is a strapping, well-endowed hunk of a man to stuff her holes.

You find yourself home alone, pumping your inferior cock in frustration, while she goes out for yet another girl’s night out. When she comes home late at night, smiling that secret smile, you can’t help but wonder….

It’s becoming your obsession. You find yourself rummaging through her dirty panties, smelling them, tasting them, stroking your dick with them hoping and dreading at the same time that you will find what you’ve been suspecting all along…. her juices mingled with his.

You find yourself checking out other men at the urinal, measuring their cocks out of the corner of your eye. Often you are lingering in the locker room, appraising other men’s muscular legs and tight buttocks, trying to imagine which of them would appeal to her the most. Or perhaps you’re hoping to get a not-so-innocent grope beneath the foggy cover of the sauna, so you can see who rises to the occasion the fastest.

If she only knew how content you’d be to sit in the corner stroking your cock as you watch her get her fill. If only she would just bring him home, so you could hear her cries of pleasure from your little bed in the next room. ‘After all,” she had said, ‘it would be better for everyone if you just slept down the hall.’ Maybe if you find a cock big enough for her, she’ll let you clean up afterward.

Therapists Brooke

(949) 421-6066