Feeling Lonely

Dear Ms. Valerie,
I was browsing the web when I came across your site and I just have to say you are soooooo beautiful. I just wish I could find someone like you to keep me company at night. I haven’t been with anyone since the death of my wife and been very lonely and can’t seem to get over her. I want to have another lady in my life I just don’t have the courage to go out and start dating, so I have to resort to this having phonesex to help keep my mind from going crazy. I went out on one date about 4 months after she died and when I hugged the sweet girl I was with I just started to cry like a baby. So I could never see myself ever getting into another physical relationship with anyone else. Could you help me? Do you think if I was to go with just an internet phonesex girlfriend that I can spoil her instead of actually physically date so I don’t feel like I am cheating on my wife, god rest her soul, is a good idea?
Lonely Widow

Dear Lonely Widow,
First off my condolences on the death of your wife. I don’t know what it would feel like to lose a love one but I do feel you love and thank you for the wonderful compliment, I can see you are a true genuine gentlemen. I bet your relationship was special and I know how much you want to keep that dear to your heart. But to answer your question there is nothing wrong with establishing an internet phonesex girlfriend relationship to help ease those lonely nights to keep your mind back on track. In fact I think it’s a great idea and with myself I know if we started to establish such a relationship I know eventually you will get away from that insecurity feeling you have inside and start stirring away from your phobia of dating again. I hope this answers your question and hope we talk soon…
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