Cross Dressing

On Cross-Dressing

19 December 2011

In my private practice, I get a lot of clients that are cross-dressers.  Cross-dressing lately seems to be a very popular subject.

Cross-dressing has been used for disguise, performance art and as a literary trope in modern times and throughout history.  This is a fashion and life style that tends to be associated with people of a certain sex orientation.

Nearly every society has made distinctions between male and female gender by the style, color, or type of clothing they are expected to wear.  Most of these societies have had a set of norms, views, guidelines, or even laws defining what type of clothing is appropriate for each gender. Sort of like a gender police!

Cross-dressing is against those norms. It can be seen as a type of transgender behavior. It does not, however, necessarily indicate transgender identity. Just because a person cross-dresses it means that he/she identify as being of a different gender than the one they were born with.  Sounds complicated?  This can be a very touchy subject.  I’ll explore more on the subject in my next blog on cross-dressing.

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En mi práctica privada, tengo un montón de clientes que son travestis. Travestismoúltimamente parece ser un tema muy popular.

El travestismo se ha utilizado para disfrazar el arte del performance, y como un tropo literario en los tiempos modernos ya lo largo de la historia. Este es un estilode moda y la vida que tiende a asociarse con personas de una orientación sexualdeterminada.

Casi todas las sociedades ha hecho distinciones entre el género masculino y femenino por el estilo, color o tipo de ropa que se espera que el desgaste. La mayoría de estas sociedades han tenido una serie de normas, puntos de vista,directrices o incluso las leyes que definen qué tipo de ropa es apropiada para cada género. Como una especie de policía de género!

El travestismo está en contra de esas normas. Se puede ver como un tipo decomportamiento transgénero. No obstante, indica necesariamente la identidad transexual. Sólo porque una persona cruzada vestidos que significa que él / ella se identifican como de un género diferente a la que nacieron. ¿Suena complicado?Esto puede ser un tema muy delicado. Voy a explorar más sobre el tema en mi próximo blog sobre el travestismo.

Therapist Estrella

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Panties

19 December 2011

Historically, panties have been called unmentionable.  In the last few years, panties have gone through a serious evolution.  The fashion industry had turned them into something more than a necessary basic undergarment.

Panties are supposed to be worn under the clothes, often next to the skin. They keep outer garments from being soiled and stained by bodily secretions and discharges, shape the body, and provide support for parts of it.

The regular panty has evolved into sensuous and pricey pieces that go from the g string to the less attractive brief.  Some styles are appropriate both as panties and as outer clothing. If made of suitable material, some can serve as nightwear or swimsuits.  Aha, I knew when I saw my neighbor swimming in some black boyfriend style bottoms that they were not part of a bathing suit!

The new styles include bikini thongs, and G-strings.  These are also available for men.

Women’s undergarments collectively are called lingerie. They also are called intimate clothing and intimates.  That’s when stick that high price cause lingerie sounds so more sexy than panties or undies (giggles).

In my next blog, I will talk about the panty as a fetish.  In the meantime, if you have a secret fantasy of wearing them, call me and we can explore where this is coming from and even have girly time playing with each other parts as we both pull our g strings down!  Mine are black, what color are yours?

Therapist Estrella

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A Sissy’s Pity Party

9 December 2011

You have been insulted, perhaps by mistresses here. Now Your ego is all bruised, I know you are having a pity party!  A man’s pride is hurt so easily but you probably grew up hearing your mom say “Men don’t cry.  As a result of so many years of repression, you have been shown powerless and diminished in some way and now you are hurt and mad as hell!

Some of the symptoms may include: feeling disrespected, a loss in stature, an image change to reflect a decrease in what others believe about you.   You are so ashamed.  By now, you feel powerless.  Being forced into a degrading position is not a manly thing.  And let’s not even mention the fact that you are not gifted down there.

There is that girl you have been checking out.  Finally you work up the courage to ask her out.  The date is progressing nicely until you invite her to go up your place.  As soon as you get undressed, you feel the urge to grab those nice lacy panties you keep under your bed.  When she looks at your tiny dick she laughs so hard that she almost pees in your rug.

That’s the story of your life.  All you know is ridicule at the hands of others.  Don’t give up.  I’m here to help you explore the roots of your sissy behavior.  Call me; we can even play dressing up.  And if you behave I’ll give the House Special treat: ever dreamed of 18 inches up your butt?

Therapist Estrella

949 421 6066

Your First Encounter With A Shemale

28 June 2011

Hello Alison,

I am a guy and I am curious about shemales and having sex with one. Do you have any suggestions for me?

Thank you,

tscurious

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Dear tscurious,

Thank you for contacting me. Being with a shemale can be scary but rewarding at the same time.  Take it slow and don’t rush right into it.  I think with you contacting me via phone I know I can make your first experience easy and gentle for you so you feel comfortable being with a shemale.  So please call and ask for me and I would be glad to help you feel at ease.

Therapist TS Allison

949 421 6066