Confused Gender Phonesex

Sunday Confessions

18 March 2012

Do you have something you need to confess to me?  Is it something you are ashamed of or maybe something that is so taboo that you know every girl would turn their heads?  Well today is your lucky day.  It’s Confession Sinful Sundays.  I want to hear all the nasty naughty taboo fantasies that makes that dirty mind of yours turn you on and make you want to do those naughty things with a lucky girl on the phone.  It may be myself or even anyone on Live Phonesex Therapy that could assist you with your naughty thoughts.  Nothing can stop you now that you are in our quarters. It’s time to confess your sinful erotic thoughts on us and indulge in your sinful pleasures.

Therapist Valerie

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Can Jealousy Be A Good Thing?

25 January 2012

Dear Valerie,

I don’t know if I should have these feelings, if it’s normal. I have this girlfriend of mine that I have been dating her for 3 years now and for the longest time I couldn’t get turned on and couldn’t  sexually arouse her or perform like I should.  Lately I noticed her trying to make me jealous by going out every night and coming home telling me about the guys she has been socializing with and how a few of them she has already made out with them.  You would think I would be jealous or upset but for some reason I find myself turned on and instantly get an erection.  The other night I came home and caught her in bed with another guy and instead of getting pissed I just stood there and started to jerk off.  Is this normal for me to feel this way?  Shouldn’t I be pissed off and jealous?

Confused Boyfriend

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Dear Confused Boyfriend,

I know how difficult this may be for you and confused at the same time but have you ever thought that maybe it’s not the thought of your girlfriend fucking another man that isn’t you that is turning you on but it’s the “cock” that turns you on.  There are lots of guys like you that have a deep secret that they let the world know they are straight but deep inside they actually yearn for the cock.  So for you to not end up jealous or upset like you should be is actually helping your sex appeal.  Maybe you should talk it over with your girlfriend about becoming maybe her cuck boyfriend.  This way you can interact with her and both parties are getting the sexual desires and wants they need.  Call me and let me help you further and I can also help get you started in training as a cucky boy.

Therapist Valerie

949 421 6066

On Cross-Dressing

19 December 2011

In my private practice, I get a lot of clients that are cross-dressers.  Cross-dressing lately seems to be a very popular subject.

Cross-dressing has been used for disguise, performance art and as a literary trope in modern times and throughout history.  This is a fashion and life style that tends to be associated with people of a certain sex orientation.

Nearly every society has made distinctions between male and female gender by the style, color, or type of clothing they are expected to wear.  Most of these societies have had a set of norms, views, guidelines, or even laws defining what type of clothing is appropriate for each gender. Sort of like a gender police!

Cross-dressing is against those norms. It can be seen as a type of transgender behavior. It does not, however, necessarily indicate transgender identity. Just because a person cross-dresses it means that he/she identify as being of a different gender than the one they were born with.  Sounds complicated?  This can be a very touchy subject.  I’ll explore more on the subject in my next blog on cross-dressing.

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En mi práctica privada, tengo un montón de clientes que son travestis. Travestismoúltimamente parece ser un tema muy popular.

El travestismo se ha utilizado para disfrazar el arte del performance, y como un tropo literario en los tiempos modernos ya lo largo de la historia. Este es un estilode moda y la vida que tiende a asociarse con personas de una orientación sexualdeterminada.

Casi todas las sociedades ha hecho distinciones entre el género masculino y femenino por el estilo, color o tipo de ropa que se espera que el desgaste. La mayoría de estas sociedades han tenido una serie de normas, puntos de vista,directrices o incluso las leyes que definen qué tipo de ropa es apropiada para cada género. Como una especie de policía de género!

El travestismo está en contra de esas normas. Se puede ver como un tipo decomportamiento transgénero. No obstante, indica necesariamente la identidad transexual. Sólo porque una persona cruzada vestidos que significa que él / ella se identifican como de un género diferente a la que nacieron. ¿Suena complicado?Esto puede ser un tema muy delicado. Voy a explorar más sobre el tema en mi próximo blog sobre el travestismo.

Therapist Estrella

949 421 6066

A Sissy’s Pity Party

9 December 2011

You have been insulted, perhaps by mistresses here. Now Your ego is all bruised, I know you are having a pity party!  A man’s pride is hurt so easily but you probably grew up hearing your mom say “Men don’t cry.  As a result of so many years of repression, you have been shown powerless and diminished in some way and now you are hurt and mad as hell!

Some of the symptoms may include: feeling disrespected, a loss in stature, an image change to reflect a decrease in what others believe about you.   You are so ashamed.  By now, you feel powerless.  Being forced into a degrading position is not a manly thing.  And let’s not even mention the fact that you are not gifted down there.

There is that girl you have been checking out.  Finally you work up the courage to ask her out.  The date is progressing nicely until you invite her to go up your place.  As soon as you get undressed, you feel the urge to grab those nice lacy panties you keep under your bed.  When she looks at your tiny dick she laughs so hard that she almost pees in your rug.

That’s the story of your life.  All you know is ridicule at the hands of others.  Don’t give up.  I’m here to help you explore the roots of your sissy behavior.  Call me; we can even play dressing up.  And if you behave I’ll give the House Special treat: ever dreamed of 18 inches up your butt?

Therapist Estrella

949 421 6066

Do You Have A Sex Addiction?

9 December 2011

Are you addicted to sex?  Sex addiction seems to be on the rise. Do you think about your addiction, whatever it may be, day or night and are starting to get worried?  Don’t worry, you are not alone.

Help is on the way!  I am Estrella, your personal therapist! I’m understanding and non judgmental.

Let’s just see if we can do something about your perverted ways.

Call me.  I can give you the best of both worlds.

Ready and willing to discuss all your fantasies.

Therapist Estrella

949 421 6066

Offering “NEW” Group Therapy with Dr. Sarah

14 November 2011

We are now offering Group Therapy every Wednesday Nights from 6pm to 9pm PST with Dr. Sarah and a couple of our other highly recommended Therapists on our site.  To read up about Dr. Sarah’s abilities and her credentials click on her name and you may find it appealing to want to join in this group discussion with many other clients that will join.  Anything discussed in Group will be kept confidential and not left from the group.  There is no limit on what you may want to talk about or discuss in group that may be helpful or beneficial for anyone else that may come join group.  We are open to whatever kinks, issues or problems you may have and may want to talk about and get it out in the open.

Call today and reserve your spot each week!

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Are You Bi Curious?

12 June 2010

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Dear Ms. Erica

I’m a young Male who works in an office firm. I have always been rather shy around girls. Don’t get
me wrong. I am one hundred percent straight, even though some of the things I have been forced to do recently might seem to deny that. I was a good student in high school and an even better one in college. I liked sports, but really excellent at mental activities. So it’s not surprising that I landed a really nice job for an upscale marketing firm.

Because I was quiet and as I say, shy with girls, I never had much sex. Here I was for all practical purposes, twenty-two year old virgin. I had been jerked off by some girls I dated, and I had been blown several times, and one time I even had my dick in a girl’s pussy, but I got so excited I pulled out and shot all over the place. What I wanted more than anything was a really nice caring sensual girlfriend with whom I could explore sex and release all of my pent up desires.

I have a very powerful and empowering boss she is always making me work on weekends and nights for her. Black mailing me if I don’t do her sexual favors she said she will make something up and tell my girlfriend. What can I do to have her stop? I have been secretly fooling around with her for a year now. She keeps toys in her desk drawers; makes me wear her panties. I have started to look forward to her calling me into her office each week to see what else she wants me to do to her sexually; she dresses amazingly hot and smells blissful; it turns me on. I don’t want to stop what’s going on but I know it’s wrong but I love my girlfriend and don’t want her to find out about this and leave me. What can I do?

Very confused

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Dear Very confused

I’m sorry you are having trouble at your job with a woman boss as us woman can be over-bearing and very empowering for men but remember this as you a guy are very visual and seems to me you look forward to going to work and seeing what your boss is wearing that’s a normal guy thing. But these things your boss has been doing behind your door with you is that what your confused about? Has she popped your ass cherry? I think you love your girlfriend no doubt but you don’t wanna lose your job at the same time. Did it ever occur to you that maybe your bi-curious and don’t wanna anyone to know that and your boss has helped you discover this other life you really wanna live? Its totally normal, a lot of straight guys feel this way. I know from first hand experience I have turned a few straight guys in to bi curious men that actually look forward to the next time I pull out a toy and use it in their ass if it feels good then go with. Lots of married men or boyfriends are just scared to tell their girlfriends about this secret they have. They are afraid if they tell them they are gonna leave or think they’re gay and don’t wanna be with a woman and that’s not the case. I think you shouldn’t hide this secret anymore. I can help you and maybe give you some pointers and having your girlfriend wander these fantasies with you if you decide to tell her.

Ms. Erica

(949) 421-6066

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Suffering From Identity Dysphoria

13 May 2010

Dear Mistress Allison,

All my life I have been very confused of my gender. I know I am born a boy but something in me says I am not. I always played with my sisters dolls and barbies growing up and even tried dressing up in my mother’s clothes behind her back. Growing up I was always made fun of called a “Faggot” and “Gayboy” but my father always told me to toughen up and be a MAN but that is the problem I couldn’t do it. So once I graduated from High School I started doing the dating scenes with woman but while I date a girl all I could think of is a cock and dream of having a cock and now that I am married I don’t think I can please my wife because I fantasize about having a cock instead of worshiping my wife’s pussy. Is there something wrong with me Allison?

Confused Boy


Dear Confused Boy,

There is nothing wrong with you. You have what they call, “Identity Dysphoria.” You’re just different and so you know, your not alone with this condition. This doesn’t make you Gay as many would think. Your brain cells are set in a different mode and you think more along the lines of a female than a male. Albeit your DNA says you’re a male, your identity Dysphoria says you’re female. By placing yourself in this position and understanding your condition, you can go right ahead and think of cocks and not pussies.

If your wife is open enough, you can talk to her to give you the support needed to embrace your condition rather than think you’re sick or totally out in left field. No shrink can fix “Identity Dysphoria.” Your brain cells are already embedded with this condition. There are many support groups online that can give you the support needed to understand yourself better.

Sincerely,

TS Allison

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